! just wanted to share my recent experiences with you. As you know a stammerer has to go through many difficulties and embarrassing situations throughout the day, everyday !  I realized one thing which has helped me to understand and protect myself ...... this happened to me when i was travelling to college through a BEST bus carrying the same habit pattern of thinking what will happen today when i stammer if someone asks my name or asks me my roll no and so on ..... thoughts rolling continuously in my mind ...... i was sitting near the window seat and the weather was perfectly cool and fresh ! i was listening to linkin park songs and watching these thoughts in my mind.......at one instant while listening i realized my solution to my stammering more deeply ...... i realized that I am giving more importance to people's perception about me and this is causing me strain and worry ! The perception that people have about me may be true or wrong ... it should not matter me because the only person who knows about my true intentions is MY self ! i know what character i am made of ! but that doesn't mean that i will not listen to anybody's view or advices or devalue other people ideas ... i respect them .... but i judge them at my own conscience level and then only accept it !