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I am a PWS. What can I do? PDF Print E-mail
Posted by Dr. Sachin   
Tuesday, 04 August 2009 11:25

Speech therapy is not affordable for everyone, nor is it available everywhere in India. But it does help. So if you can, go for professional help. But many PWS may not be able to do so. Here is
what they can do on their own and with some help from family and friends:


1. Start talking about the problem with close friends or family members; this reduces the emotional isolation we develop over years. You may even start an interactive blog on the web. Here are few examples:

 

http://t-tisa.blogspot.com

http://thestutteringbrain.blogspot.com/
http://closetstutterer.blogspot.com/

 

2. Prepare well for formal presentations - use PowerPoint if appropriate (or other AV aids).


3. Consciously plan and place thoughtful silences in your speech; use these silences to breathe deeply. It relieves stress and tension in speech muscles. Make your presentation or discussion participatory: ask questions and listen to others when they talk.


4. Smile whenever appropriate, while talking. Smile reduces your tension and the chances of stumbling over words also goes down.

 

5. Practice deep abdominal breathing and other relaxation exercises at frequent intervals during the day. While talking, remind yourself to switch into this kind of breathing instead of holding the breath unconsciously.

 

6. Volunteer to serve someone needing help in the neighborhood for example, a person with paraplegia. This takes your mind away from your own problem and generates good vibrations.


7. When sub/unconsciously, you talk to yourself- what kind of things do you say to yourself? PWS often acquire critical attitudes of the world around them and judge themselves harshly for every little failure or setback. The use of positive affirmations, religion, yoga, meditation, etc can help us change our self perception and attitude towards life.


8. Join a self help group. Start one if there are none in your neighborhood. A self help group can start with even two PWS. For ideas about how to run a self help group, visit the SHG section on this wwebsite:

 

You may even join a web based support group. To do that, just start partcipating in the discussions on the forum, and you'll find a good support structure.

 

There are many specific skills (like eye contact, slow onsets etc) to be acquired by constant practice and by developing greater insight into and awareness about what we do when we stammer. Which muscles tense up? Do we hold our breath or try to force it out against a closed
throat? What happens before and after? This awareness helps us to deal with these, one at a time and over a long period.

 

Above all, do you have the will to change yourself? It is a long process with many ups and downs, but finally a very rewarding journey.

Last Updated on Tuesday, 04 August 2009 14:16
 
 

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